There is a light at the end of the tunnel on the journey of demementia!

How nice would it be if all families could say that they had no resentments? How many of us can say that we have led a drama free family life? It would be nice to think everyone could breeze through life without drama. But I doubt this is reality!

If at all possible try to be conscious of your loved ones feelings.Can you remember some of your loved ones favorite activities? There may be something’s you both enjoyed doing together. Dealing with dementia has many challenges yet we can also find many rewards.

It might be difficult for those of us whom have had family interactions that were not always ideal to make the transition into caring for a loved one with dementia. Letting go of what we have no control over and focusing on our current situation can lessen stress. If we have a bond with our loved one that goes beyond the difficulties of the past, we have something to build on.

When we stay in the moment and look at what is before us as we travel down the road of dementia with forgiveness and respect we can create a positive experience with our loved ones.It may seem the person with dementia is out of it. However, if they sense feelings of resentment we may be met with aggression and resistance.  They still have feelings...

Anxiety can cause our loved ones feelings of being disoriented and confused. Imagine the frustration you would feel if you were unable to complete basic tasks. An art full approach to our loved ones needs can make the journey through dementia a healing experience for both the caregiver and our loved ones.

Family traditions that are still within the range of your loved ones abilities such as  watching a favorite movie or listening to short stories are both good ways to stimulate the mind. We spend many hours caring for our loved ones. Why not make them enjoyable?

You could also try encouraging your loved one to recall moments from their past that they are particularly proud of. Creating a bond while going through old family photos and reminiscing are both good ways to have a healing experience.This can be a time that can bring our families closer together. We can create a time for healing and closure. When we come to the end of our journey as caregivers we may find peace in the assurance that we made a daily commitment to comforting our loved ones in their time of need.

 We have the power to take a bad situation and make it good. Yes there is a light at the end of the tunnel. We just have to look for it!